I purchased a 4 or 5 month old red tegu about a week and a half ago. For the first week, I fed him in his enclosure on a paper plate and pretty much just let him get settled in, although I spent some time with my hand in his cage each day so that he would get used to my presence.
Now that he has settled in, I would like to feed him outside of his enclosure and start handling him. However, the problem is that Monty (the tegu) is not having any of it. I watched the video that Bobby filmed about picking up a not-yet-tame tegu and I tried to imitate it today by gently lifting Monty with one hand, but once I do manage to get a hold of Monty, he doesn't settle down like the tegu does in the video. He just leaps out of my hand and runs into his hide. He also runs into his hide whenever I try to pet him, but he doesn't really mind if I'm messing around in the enclosure, as long as I don't get too close or try to touch him.
So, my question is, then, how do I build trust with my tegu and get him to not be afraid of being picked up and touched? Should I more forcibly handle him and pick him up against his will, even though it is clear that he doesn't like it, or will that just backfire and make him more afraid of me? Should I keep trying to gently lift him up and just feed him in his enclosure and hope he eventually allows me to pick him up?
As far as taming goes, I tried sitting in the bathroom with him for about an hour yesterday, but I kind of had to manhandle him (I held him tight enough that he couldn't get out of my grip, but no tighter, I don't know if that is considered manhandling) to get him to and from his cage. It wasn't pleasant for him or me. He peed on me, so he was clearly very scared. I don't really want to do it again if it is stressing him out that much. I've also been putting my hand in his enclosure and moving around his substrate, as I mentioned. This doesn't really bother him and he will come out and bask and smell me, he just is sure not to get too close.
I haven't tried putting a dirty shirt in his enclosure yet. That's the next thing I'm going to try, so that he will get used to my scent. I was also thinking that I might buy some tongs and try feeding him off of them, as that seems to be something that people do with monitor lizards to help build trust.
Help?
Now that he has settled in, I would like to feed him outside of his enclosure and start handling him. However, the problem is that Monty (the tegu) is not having any of it. I watched the video that Bobby filmed about picking up a not-yet-tame tegu and I tried to imitate it today by gently lifting Monty with one hand, but once I do manage to get a hold of Monty, he doesn't settle down like the tegu does in the video. He just leaps out of my hand and runs into his hide. He also runs into his hide whenever I try to pet him, but he doesn't really mind if I'm messing around in the enclosure, as long as I don't get too close or try to touch him.
So, my question is, then, how do I build trust with my tegu and get him to not be afraid of being picked up and touched? Should I more forcibly handle him and pick him up against his will, even though it is clear that he doesn't like it, or will that just backfire and make him more afraid of me? Should I keep trying to gently lift him up and just feed him in his enclosure and hope he eventually allows me to pick him up?
As far as taming goes, I tried sitting in the bathroom with him for about an hour yesterday, but I kind of had to manhandle him (I held him tight enough that he couldn't get out of my grip, but no tighter, I don't know if that is considered manhandling) to get him to and from his cage. It wasn't pleasant for him or me. He peed on me, so he was clearly very scared. I don't really want to do it again if it is stressing him out that much. I've also been putting my hand in his enclosure and moving around his substrate, as I mentioned. This doesn't really bother him and he will come out and bask and smell me, he just is sure not to get too close.
I haven't tried putting a dirty shirt in his enclosure yet. That's the next thing I'm going to try, so that he will get used to my scent. I was also thinking that I might buy some tongs and try feeding him off of them, as that seems to be something that people do with monitor lizards to help build trust.
Help?